I hardly know what to do with myself.
This morning, Q left bright and early with my brother and his wife on a road trip to see my dad and his wife in Kelowna for the long weekend. This is huge! First of all, if this was me when I was 7, I would have had my auntie and uncle turn around 30 minutes into the trip because I was already homesick for my momma. And Q is much like his momma in this respect. When his best friend suggests a sleep over, Q always looks at me with horror in his eyes, silently pleading with me to say no, even though Q loves his best friend and their family. He just loves his momma a tiny bit more. The idea of going away to summer camp for a week might be any other 7 year old's idea of paradise, but my Q would wonder what he had done so horribly wrong that I would send him away for a whole week.
In fact, up until last night I thought he was going to bail on the road trip. I had my contingency plan carefully thought up - with everyone booking hotel rooms and him being the key to the trip, he was going whether he liked it or not. I was also very cautious not to mention how much I was going to miss him, or how sad I was I couldn't go (I have to work...), or any of my concerns that he was going to back out. When our wake up call came this morning (my brother knocking on my door, "Rise and shine!! Time for a road-trip!!!!) at 5:45 am, Q bounced out of bed faster than I've seen all school year, that's for sure. He was the first one in the car, with his seatbelt on...
This is huge. My baby is growing up. And while I'm sooooo proud of the person he's becoming, it is hard to watch him find his wings and leave the nest little by little with each year. He's becoming such a person. Yesterday, he was playing with the neighbourhood children and I was surprised to see he's becoming such a leader. He had these kids doing whatever he told them, with a kindness and directness that belies his age. He had them weed and clean up my garden in a morning. It was amazing to watch him work. It's a little annoying that we have little to no privacy anymore because these children are inviting themselves to my backyard every single day to play with Q, but it's amazing to me the magnetism Q is developing.
Q's last day of grade two was this past Thursday. He made it through the whole year with Mrs. J without having a nervous breakdown! Hahaha. Four days before the last day of school, he was still telling me he wasn't feeling well, and shouldn't go to school. When I called his bluff, he resorted to the whiny, "But I hate school...." Nevertheless, he made it. He can read. He can do math (in his head!!!!!), he's destined for great, great things. And oh, the character he has built from doing something he hates every single day. He's now my grade 3'er, which totally blows my mind.
Here are some pic's of his "Sports Day" which was super nostalgic for me because I remember my sports days when I was his age and it doesn't seem like 25 years ago (GASP!!!)
|yellow team kicked every ones butts. haha|
|crazy hair day. i'm still finding that stuff on everything|
|token action shot|
Oh, and I totally know what I'm doing tonight without my little Q...Magic Mike, anyone?!?!?!